3 Skills to get to the Heart of the Fight

Three tips on how to fight with your partner productively

No matter what your fight styling, our research and experience with successful couples revealed the process to get to the heart of the fight and grow closer through conflict. As you become adept at what we call the Battling to Bliss process—a process that consists of six key relationship skills—you’ll fight in ways that help […]

The Best Relationship Advice You Never Got

Couples and the best relationship advice ever

After 30 years working with couples and working on my own relationship, I’ve seen the best and the worst. I’ve been asked many times for advice and I myself have sought advice and counseling to strengthen my relationship as well. One of the most common success factors in relationships is a willingness to grow, change […]

How to Fix a Relationship: It’s Not What You Think

How to fix a relationship

We all know the old adage, “If it ain’t broke, don’t fix it,” but when it comes to relationships there’s a wide spectrum between “completely broke” and “needs work.” The truth is, all relationships require work. Healthy relationships are in a constant state of growth and transformation. If your relationship has reached a point where […]

In a Relationship? 3 Surprising Facts

Three surprising relationship facts

There’s no one-size-fits-all formula for a relationship. Just when I think I’ve heard about every possible nuance or relationship story, something will come along that breaks the mold. So then how could I possibly write a book exploring truths about relationships that we can apply to everyone? There are very few universal rules or facts […]