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Dr. Judith Wright

Judith WrightDr. Judith Wright is hailed as a peerless educator, world-class coach, lifestyles expert, inspirational speaker, best-selling author, and corporate consultant. She’s been called “one of the most sought-after self-help gurus in the country” by the San Francisco Chronicle and one of “America’s ultimate experts” by Women’s World Magazine.

Dr. Bob Wright

Bob WrightDr. Bob Wright is an internationally recognized and cutting-edge author, speaker, program developer, CEO coach, and highly successful entrepreneur. Considered by many to be one of the leading theorists in human development, Dr. Bob’s revolutionary model of human growth and development has helped thousands to better understand themselves and pursue the realization of their potential.


I could see myself and my behavior in “The Heart of the Fight.” So will you. Better yet, you’ll finally know how to resolve the issues that lead to them in the first place. I highly recommend this book.

An inspirational and eye-opening wake-up call for anyone who wants to create authentic, thriving relationships. From friendships to business relationships to spouses, this book provides great tools for relationships that really work.

I know the Wrights and have seen their work. I’ve spoken with their students and been impressed by the vitality, clarity, and forthrightness of their interactions. We have discussed their research and I am consistently impressed by the solidity of their approach and the fact that they practice what they preach. What they are saying in The Heart of the Fight is grounded in years of experience and success. Don’t miss this opportunity to understand the basic elements and finer points of relationship success.

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Turn Your Relationship Conflicts into Opportunities for Growth

Three tips on how to fight with your partner productively

3 Skills to get to the Heart of the Fight

No matter what your fight styling, our research and experience with successful couples revealed the process to get to the heart of the fight and grow closer through conflict. As you become adept at what we call the Battling to Bliss process—a…
Couples and the best relationship advice ever

The Best Relationship Advice You Never Got

After 30 years working with couples and working on my own relationship, I’ve seen the best and the worst. I’ve been asked many times for advice and I myself have sought advice and counseling to strengthen my relationship as well. One…
How to fix a relationship

How to Fix a Relationship: It’s Not What You Think

We all know the old adage, “If it ain’t broke, don’t fix it,” but when it comes to relationships there’s a wide spectrum between “completely broke” and “needs work.” The truth is, all relationships require work. Healthy…
Three surprising relationship facts

In a Relationship? 3 Surprising Facts

There’s no one-size-fits-all formula for a relationship. Just when I think I’ve heard about every possible nuance or relationship story, something will come along that breaks the mold. So then how could I possibly write a book exploring…

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I love this book! Bob and Judith offer the best program I’ve seen for using the conflict that inevitably arises in marriage to help a couple create more intimacy. This is a must-read for anyone in a relationship or thinking about getting in a relationship.

Their ground breaking method and research should take its place as simply the most practical, effective approach to maximizing couple and individual potential and satisfaction.

Having read Bob and Judith’s books I can say with certainty that they’re loaded with authentic, practical ways to help you lead a more rewarding life. The Wright’s rules of engagement help us all to rise to the next level. Everything goes better when we master getting to the Heart of the Fight!

The Heart of the Fight is one of those books that is based on good social scientific evidence, the authors own research and others, and yet written in a lively enough prose style that couples who need the advice will actually enjoy reading it.

What a gift to realize that after 40 years of a wonderful relationship I had only scratched the surface of what is possible. 

I highly recommend this book.

The Heart of the Fight is an inspirational and eye-opening wake-up call for anyone who wants to create authentic, thriving relationships. 

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